57: the secret to dealing with a bad schedule, colleague, & boss WITHOUT losing sleep

This got me fuming mad when I was practicing Medicine:

• a totally unfair work schedule
• a surgeon yelling at me about a positive margin
• my boss (who didn't have kids) telling me that good moms don’t travel so much 

 

My anger made so much sense.

I don’t like doing MORE than my share of clinical work.

I don’t like ANYONE yelling at me.

I don’t like anyone suggesting that I’m not a good mom.

 

Here’s why I got tripped up:  I made all of this mean there was something wrong with me.

I had a terrible work schedule because I wasn’t as valuable. 

The surgeon yelled at me because I didn’t carry myself as confidently as my male counterparts.

Maybe I wasn’t being a good mom. 

Cue the sleepless nights, yelling at myself 24/7, and soothing myself with ice cream until I didn't fit into my pants. No fun.

 

In this week’s podcast episode, you get the secret to dealing with a bad schedule, colleague, and boss WITHOUT losing sleep and beating yourself up:

✳️Recognize when you're blaming you and redirect your brain towards the REAL problem (it's never you!)

✳️Create REAL solutions 

✳️Feel better fast because you know how to handle an unfair schedule, a yelling surgeon, and a bad boss

✳️Four case studies to show you how this tool works in real-time

  

Click the button to enjoy the show.

Christina💗

 

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